{"id":43,"date":"2010-03-12T18:34:41","date_gmt":"2010-03-12T18:34:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/pinkletoesblogstalker.com\/blog\/?p=43"},"modified":"2010-03-12T18:34:41","modified_gmt":"2010-03-12T18:34:41","slug":"fed_up","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/pinkletoesblogstalker.com\/blog\/fed_up\/","title":{"rendered":"Fed up."},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"fedup.jpg\" src=\"http:\/\/pinkletoesblogstalker.com\/fedup.jpg\" class=\"mt-image-center\" style=\"text-align: center; display: block; margin: 0pt auto 20px;\" height=\"1286\" width=\"910\" \/>This is incredibly frustrating and I&#8217;m at my wit&#8217;s end. Her separation anxiety is bad enough, but when I can&#8217;t even set her down long enough to take a few pictures? Beautiful spring day, adorable outfit, perfect light, wonderful moment&#8230;totally shattered the second she&#8217;s not attached to me.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m pulling my hair out! I love my baby girl, but I just cannot function with her in my arms 24-7. It&#8217;s not even good enough if I&#8217;m sitting on the floor with her&#8230;she must be in my arms. Period. I don&#8217;t think my husband quite understands the toll this is taking on me. It&#8217;s to the point where I don&#8217;t even want to go downstairs in the morning because I know the minute she sees me, she&#8217;ll walk over, cling to my legs and cry at me. I&#8217;ve tried to ignore it in the hopes that she&#8217;ll eventually quit, but it&#8217;s so draining. We can&#8217;t hear ourselves think and then we start snapping at the poor boys. I do give her attention, I give her lots of attention, but I also have to put food on the table and constantly working until 4 a.m. because I can&#8217;t get peace otherwise just isn&#8217;t the kind of lifestyle I want. I have a Beco carrier, and she&#8217;s fine if I&#8217;m walking around, but if I try to sit down, she just starts pulling my hair. 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